Playing a musical instrument has been shown to have lifelong benefits. It strengthens executive function, teaches discipline and perseverance, and develops creativity. However, many of us have less than happy memories of practicing a musical instrument when we would rather be doing something else. How can we break the cycle with our own kids? We talk to Candice Choi, the Director at Musicians in the Making to learn more.

What are some of the benefits of playing a musical instrument?

There are many benefits of playing a musical instrument! Learning to play an instrument exercises all parts of the brain. Students learn to develop physical coordination while exercising their creative, emotional, and mathematical abilities all at the same time. Playing a musical instrument teaches the life skills that come along with learning something new. Most importantly, playing a musical instrument develops strong aural skills and the appreciation of creating beauty out of thin air!  

I didn’t have the best experience with playing music as a kid. My parents made me play piano and I hated it. How can I avoid this with my own kid? 

I’m sorry to hear that you didn’t have the best experience with playing music as a kid! We certainly can prevent this from happening with your child by continuing to engage and let the child lead with their own curiosity and creativity. You can encourage musical play at home by singing songs and dancing. You can make music in the kitchen with pots and pans!  Play music around the house and show your child examples of other children playing the piano too! Celebrate them when they make strides in their musical development, no matter how big or small. Learning an instrument is not easy and children need as many cheerleaders as possible! 

When is a good time to start music lessons? What instrument is the best for a little kid to start off with? 

Age 4 or 5 is a great time to begin official lessons. The best instrument to start out on is piano. This is because the piano is a musical instrument that helps to develop a broad foundation for future musical studies. If students decide they want to learn other instruments when they get older, having knowledge of the piano gives them an advantage.

My kid is a little too young to start music lessons. How can I foster an appreciation of music at a younger age? 

I always encourage parents to expose their child to all things musical! While they are too young to start lessons, you can still listen to a variety of music at home, attend family-friendly concerts, and dance and sing with your child! Once they are old enough to start formal lessons, all of their musical experiences will contribute to the success in their learning. 

How long is an adequate trial of music lessons? I think my kid can really enjoy playing an instrument if they kept at it for longer. At the same time, I don’t want to drag things out if it’s not going to work out. 

This is a great question! It really depends on the child. It is important to keep the student engaged so that they enjoy playing an instrument. When a student encounters a challenging time in their learning experience, I believe it is the teacher and parents’ job to help them through it. If one instrument is not suited for them, it is likely that a different instrument might be! 

My kid has started lessons, but isn’t really interested. How can I get them to be more interested? 

I would encourage them to find other friends who play music as well! Perform in a casual setting for one another at a playdate. Make music a part of their social life! 

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Musicians in the Making is a music school based out of the San Francisco Peninsula that serves students of all ages. Our unique approach allows our school to learn and collaborate with students and teachers both locally and around the world. Together as a community, we believe in creating harmony one note at a time!

Join Musicians in the Making for their Welcome Back Picnic on Sunday, October 1st from 1:00-3:00 PM for musical performances, food, and games! Location: Gellert Park, 50 Wembley Dr, Daly City, CA 94015